Look, we all want to know if that person we’ve been messaging on tinder is going to be a big dissapointment like the rest or if they’re going to pleasantly surprise you. We’ve all wondered if the person we’re sleeping with has feelings or if you really truly are just friends with benefits.
Since humans have had hearts we’ve been asking if that special someone loves me or loves me not. So today I am going to teach you a handy trick to answer that question without harming any flowers in the process. Yes, I am that sensative.
What you’ll need:
1 deck of playing cards
Step 1: Shuffle the deck as much as you want. If you’re tapped into your intuition you’ll know when the right time to stop is. If you’re not tapped into your intuition, just shuffle the deck while concentrating on the object of your affection and stop whenever you feel like it, don’t overthink it.
Step 2: Hold the shuffled deck to your heart and take 3 deep clearing breaths. If you can plant your feet onto the ground while doing so, sweet, do it. If not, no worries, just relax into the breath. Try to keep your mind blank but def don’t think about anything other than breathing (or your crush), your grocery list can wait.
Step 3: Place the deck on the table in front of you, on your lap, in your hand, or wherever you can. Now cut the deck, once again while trying not to over think it, we’re working from our heart here people! Sometimes the deck cuts pretty evenly and other times you only pull the top 10 cards away. Whatever happens is ment to happen.
Step 4: Take the “cut” part of the deck you just grabbed and place it on the bottom of the deck. Now you can pull the new top card and find out your fate.
Red or black?
If I am doing this exercise a red card would mean that he’s into me and a black card would mean that he just isn’t that into me (but like, honestly, why? WHY?) However, if you associate the colors of the cards differently, then by all means flip the script. It is important that you decide which color means what before you practice this exercise.
And the fun doesn’t stop there, this can be used for any yes or no question! Want to know if your boss is going to retire this year or if you’re actually going to have to go in for jury duty next week? Feel free to ask the cards.
Of course, yes or no questions can only tell us so much. The beauty of tarot lies in its ability to dig deep and not give us straight answers. so if you want to know the deeper meanings behind someone’s affection, or lack there of it, tarot can bring to light all that is hidden. And if you want me specifically to do that reading for you click here.